Propose & Approve
Give your submissive a voice
A healthy dynamic isn't purely top-down. Requests give the submissive a structured way to propose additions to the dynamic without breaking protocol. The Dominant retains full authority — they approve or reject — but the submissive gets to contribute ideas.
Submissives can propose new tasks or rituals for their Dominant to review. Draft the details — due dates, priority, schedule — and submit for approval. The Dominant reviews, approves with notes, or rejects with a reason. Approved requests automatically create the real task or ritual.
Capabilities
Task Proposals
Submissive drafts a task with due date, priority, and point value. Dominant reviews and approves or rejects.
Ritual Proposals
Propose a new ritual with schedule, frequency, and description. Dominant decides if it fits the dynamic.
Review Workflow
Dominant sees pending requests in one place. Approve with an optional note, or reject with a reason.
Auto-Creation
Approved requests automatically create the real task or ritual. No duplicate effort.
Screenshots
Request create
Request review
Role Perspectives
For Dominants
Review proposals at your pace and shape the dynamic collaboratively.
- See what your submissive wants to be held accountable for
- Approve good ideas without doing the setup work
- Reject with a reason so expectations are clear
- Maintain final authority while inviting input
For Submissives
Propose structure you want and feel heard in the dynamic.
- Show initiative by proposing tasks and rituals
- Draft all the details — your Dominant just approves
- Track request status (pending, approved, rejected)
- Feel invested in the structure of your dynamic
Use Cases
Initiative: Sub proposes a daily exercise ritual they want to be held accountable for
Negotiation: Sub requests a task with adjusted difficulty or timeline
Growth: Sub proposes new protocols as the dynamic deepens
Shared building: Both partners shape the dynamic together
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