Find What You Both Want
Answer alone, see only what you share
Each partner answers scenario cards on their own phone, one card at a time: yes, curious, or not for me. When you both finish a pack, your matches show face down and you turn them over one by one. Only shared interests are shown; your no is never shown to your partner. In solo mode you answer alone and keep a list of your own yes and curious answers. A Premium feature; any partner's Premium unlocks it.
Talking about kinks face to face is hard, and a printed yes/no list shows each partner every answer. Kink Match lets each of you answer in private and shows only what you both want.
Capabilities
13 themed packs
164 scenario cards across packs such as Essentials, Sensory Play, Service & Devotion, Bondage, and Rules & Rituals. Each pack shows an intensity label.
One card at a time
Swipe right for yes, left for not for me, or up for curious; buttons do the same. Dominants see each card written from their side, and some cards carry a safety note.
Results when you both finish
A pack's results open only after both of you have answered it. If you finish first, Kneel notifies you when your partner finishes.
Face-down reveal
Matches start face down. Tap a card to turn it, or turn them all. You see what you both said yes to, and what one or both of you is curious about, with a match score for the pack.
Your no is not shown
Your partner never sees your no. The server sends only the shared matches to the other phone, never your full answers.
Use a match
Open a task or ritual form already filled in from a match. A submissive suggests it instead, and it goes to the Dominant as a proposal.
Role Perspectives
For Dominants
See what your submissive wants to explore, without seeing what they said no to.
- Cards are written from the Dominant's side
- Turn a shared yes into a task or ritual from the match card
- See a match score for each finished pack
- Answer a pack again later; your partner sees the new results
For Submissives
Say what you want to try, without your partner seeing what you said no to.
- Your no is never shown to your partner
- Answer at your own pace; each answer is saved as you go
- Curious answers show as things to explore together
- Suggest a match as a task or ritual for your Dominant to review
Use Cases
Starting out: each partner answers the Essentials pack to find a first shared yes
Private answers: each partner answers alone, and only shared interests are shown
From talk to practice: turn a shared yes into a task or ritual
Scene ideas: your own yes and curious answers show as suggestions on your Scene Log wishes list
Try kink match free — one subscription covers both partners.
