Ask Permission
Quick asks, clear answers
Submissives send short everyday permission asks: going out, spending, starting an activity. The Dominant gets a push notification and approves or denies with optional notes. Pending requests expire after 24 hours if unanswered. A Premium feature; any partner's Premium unlocks it.
Not every decision needs a scene negotiation. Permission requests give submissives a lightweight way to ask for everyday clearance and give dominants a single place to answer — with accountability and expiry built in.
Capabilities
Fast asks
Quick-pick from your recently used asks or write a custom message (up to 200 characters). Designed for real-life permissions, not long negotiations.
Dominant review
Incoming requests surface on the dominant home and in a dedicated list. Approve or deny from a detail sheet with optional notes.
24-hour expiry
Unanswered requests auto-expire so nothing stays ambiguous indefinitely.
Notifications
Push alerts the Dominant when a new ask arrives; the submissive is notified when the request is answered or cancelled.
History
Review pending and recent permission activity from the permission requests screen.
Role Perspectives
For Dominants
Handle everyday asks without a thread of texts.
- See new asks at a glance on your dashboard
- Respond with approve or deny and optional context
- Stay in control of boundaries while keeping logistics light
For Submissives
Request permission in a structured, respectful channel.
- Quick-pick from your recently used asks
- Know when your ask was answered
- Cancel a pending request if plans change
Use Cases
Going out with friends: quick ask before you leave
Purchases or spending within agreed rules
Starting an activity that needs prior approval
Try permission requests free — one subscription covers both partners.
