Submissive Proposals
The submissive suggests, the Dominant decides
In a paired dynamic, the submissive does not add tasks, rituals, rewards or punishments directly. They propose them, and the Dominant approves, edits or declines. Nothing is added until the Dominant approves it. A proposed task or ritual follows the same free plan limits as one the Dominant creates. Proposing a reward, a punishment or anything else that uses a Premium feature needs Premium, and any partner's Premium unlocks it. Solo dynamics do not use proposals: a solo member creates items directly.
Submissives often know what would help them: a routine to build, a reward to work toward. Proposals give them a way to suggest it without adding it themselves. The Dominant keeps the final say, and nothing is added until it is approved.
Capabilities
Propose from the normal create screen
The submissive uses the same create screen as the Dominant, or starts from a ready-made idea or a Blueprint. The item goes to the Dominant for review instead of being added.
Approve, edit or decline
The Dominant approves the proposal as sent, changes it and then approves, or declines it with an optional note. The submissive gets a notification with the answer. An edited approval shows as Approved with changes.
Withdraw
The submissive can withdraw a proposal that is still waiting. The Dominant gets a notification.
Duplicate check
If an item of the same type, or a waiting proposal, already has the same title, Kneel asks before it sends.
Grouped notifications
Proposals sent close together reach the Dominant as one notification with a count. Up to 100 proposals can wait for review at a time.
Role Perspectives
For Dominants
Your partner's suggestions, your decision.
- Review proposals under Awaiting Your Decision on your home screen
- Change any detail before you approve
- Decline with an optional note
- Nothing is added until you approve it
For Submissives
Suggest what you want to work on.
- Propose tasks, rituals, rewards and punishments
- Start from a ready-made idea or a blank form
- Get a notification when your proposal is answered
- Withdraw a proposal before it is reviewed
Use Cases
New routine: the submissive proposes a daily ritual, and the Dominant sets the time and points before approving
Something to save for: the submissive suggests a reward for the catalog
Long-distance week: the submissive sends a few tasks from the Long-Distance idea pack for review
Agreed rule: the submissive picks a punishment idea and sends it for review
Try proposals free — one subscription covers both partners.
